First thing first.. the easiest way to see Psychology is through emotion. Yes.. Emotion is part of psychology that can seen easily such as Anger, Happiness, Sadness etc. It's not hard to see it, but to understand it, it's a totally different story. Emotion that seen by us is not something that happen just like that.. Emotion we seen were accumulated things. Such as experience, problem, stress, thought etc.
To understand the emotion itself, we must understand the circumstances we encounter. Especially what make the emotion to rise up. For instance:
Heidy is upset to Mark, she don't want to talk to Mark for several days. Mark was so confuse and ask for your help to understand why she been acting like that. As far as we know, Heidy was in a bad mood when Mark comes late at their date. Moreover, her little brother been annoying and keep disturbing her. Yet she feel little dizzy when she waited Mark.
OK, let's analyze this case. What made Heidy so upset to Mark?
- we should see the point of bad mood first, Bad mood may change people attitude because is a part of emotion that can control people act
- to think about it, it's natural to have a bad mood when our surrounding didn't support us. Heidy was in a bad mood because she was annoyed of her little brother
- physical condition also interact with emotional condition.
- what worsen the situation may make everything worse. Here we should see in Heidy opinion, Mark is her boyfriend, she may think that Mark could comfort her and make her mood better. But Mark was late at their date. She was disappoint at Mark.
well in this short story we can see multiple point that make emotion turn to an act. Actually we can see many emotion when we do socialize. The deeper we socialize with another, the deeper we see about emotion. To feel and understand it we can't just talk.. we need to experiencing it.
I apologize if my writing was so boring.. actually i am not a good writer.. just to try to wrote something about what i feel
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